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Guilt & Writing

December 09, 20253 min read



I am interested in seeing if I am completely alone here.

Twenty-five years ago,I was working Full-time. My husband was in the military and he was at sea anywhere from 6 to 18 months at a time, which made me a single parent to six children with various amounts of need. I also volunteered on base at the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society, the American Red Cross and as an Ombudsman for the hubby’s command.


That should have been enough. It wasn’t.


Like many wives, we nurture those around us before any of our needs are met. There are now husbands that do this work and feel the same isolation and desperation of not being fulfilled.


For my spirit, I wanted, no,, NEEDED to write. I had written since I was about 9 years old and the fire still burns bright. It gnawed at me like something I had forgotten to do …. Niggling from the darkest depths of my mind. BUT ///


Every time I sat down to write, duty called. Someones diaper needed changed, the kiddos wanted to play, the phone rang from the ARC - there was another emergency that needed cleared.

So, for the most part, I didn’t write. Everyday that I didn’t write, my soul morphed into someone I didn’t know. I was taken over by other descriptors. Mom, wife, teacher, volunteer, trusted friend. ( I’m sure there were others I wasn’t privy to - but you get the point!) There wasn’t time for me. The only creative adventures I had were with my children.


Please don’t get me wrong, I love my children and life is too short not to spend quality time with them before they are gone, experiencing their own lives. My husband needed a sounding board. The spouses on the ship needed a shoulder to cry on, a friend.


But I was losing myself.


Gradually, I picked up a pen again to write. I wrote late at night, when the children had gone to bed. I write waiting on doctor’s appointments, I wrote during some of those long nights my husband was gone to fill the lonely hours.


It isn’t easy. Deciding to commit your words to paper is brave - and the world needs YOUR words - your heart.. But how? And how can you do this without feeling that guilt?


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